Jayar M. Santos
Date of Passing:
Santos, Jayar M., 45, of North Providence, passed away peacefully on September 9th, 2023 at Brigham and Women’s Hospital surrounded by his loving family. He was the beloved husband to his high school sweetheart and best friend, Nicole “the little one” (Ramos) Santos.
Born in Providence, Rhode Island on November 7th, 1977. He was the beloved son of Frank Jr. “Chico” and Wilmette (Star) Santos
Jayar was a high school graduate of La Salle Academy. While attending La Salle, he was a member of the track, basketball, and football teams. Jayar went on to play NCAA Division 1 Football at Hofstra University, NY, and graduated with a bachelor’s degree. Hofstra granted him a brotherhood with many cherished teammates that would last his lifetime.
He proudly worked at PVD Preparatory Charter School in Providence, where he held the position of Associate Dean of Students. Jayar’s commitment to youth and public service went far beyond the classroom. He also was the Assistant Director at the Vincent Brown Recreation Center in Providence. Previously, he coached for the Moses Brown varsity football team, and was the head coach of Central Falls girls basketball team. He also was a former proud member of Providence Cobra’s Track and Field Club and Mt. Hope Cowboys.
Jayar had a deep sense of social responsibility. He embraced the role of a community leader and selflessly dedicated his time to the youth. The welfare of children was of utmost importance to Jayar.
He was a devoted husband and father who was extremely family oriented. He genuinely loved bringing people together. His infectious smile paired with his fun spirit and laughter would fill a room.
Jayar undeniably leaves a legacy to be admired.
In addition to his wife and parents, he leaves behind his loving daughter, Najah Santos, and his son Jamier Freitas. He also leaves behind siblings: Marjorie Santos, Melissa Santos Llewellyn and husband Cordell, Tejae Santos, and Herman “Butch” Brown. He also leaves behind Godparents, Kelly Brown Reis, Robert Blue, and Greg Penelton and nieces, Katja Neves, Fallon Santos, Mila Santos and three nephews Bryce, Adren, Jaelin Llewellyn. In addition to, he also leaves behind beloved father and mother-in-law, Anthony and Hilda Correia, brother-in-law, Stefan Correia (Bre’Anna Metts- Nixon) ,sister-in-laws, Alexandria Correia (DaeShawn Beasley) and Breana Cabral and her spouse Taryl and brother-in-law, Troy Heaphy. He also leaves behind aunts, Dorreen Fortes and husband Joseph, Lysa Davis and husband Ronald, Joyce Pina Brown, and Michelle Mundy Cunningham.
He was the grandson of the late Frank Sr. and Virginia (Tavares) Santos, Maria (Barros) Hargraves, and the nephew of the late Diane Santos and Debra Santos-Barnes. He also leaves behind a host of many cousins and friends as well as his beloved dogs Mogie, late Madden and Debo.
His funeral service will be held on Saturday, September 16, 2023 in Our Lady of the Rosary Church, 21 Traverse Street, Providence at 1:00 p.m., Visitation is 12 noon- 1p.m.
I’m deeply sadden to hear the passing of Jayar. I send my deepest condolences to Chico, Wilmette and the entire family. Thank you for sharing Jayar with so many people may his sweet soul rest in peace.
Chico, Wilmette and family…My prayers and sincere condolences to you all.
My deepest condolences to the Santos family and loved ones. You are in my thoughts and prayers in this most difficult time. May your love and memories of Jayar offer you some peace and comfort.
Deep, deep condolences to Frank, Wilmette family for the loss of your beautiful son, brother, husband and father. His love and beautiful work remain. Blessings to you Jayar on your journey forward.
Wilmette and family. I’m so sorry you are going through this heartbreak. My his memories be strong to help you along. Sending my love and hugs to you all during this difficult time. 💗
Frank and family,
Please accept my condolences on the passing of your dear son Jayar. I am so very sorry for your loss. This is such a tragedy for your family. May God give you strength and consolation as you deal with your lose. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
May the Peace of G-D be with you cousins 💗💗
May the Lord have his soul. Sending prayers to you all. Chico, take care and know that he will live on in the many memories he left behind.
To the Santos family from the Shepard family
You all have our heart felt sympathy; we are praying for you, that God will take you through this most difficult time.
My condolences to the entire Santos family. Jayar…the times we all spent in college- they were the best of times. You will truly be missed. 🙏🏼. May God continue to cover your family. Rest in Power!
To Chico and willmetemy deepest sympathy to you and your family may he rest in peace!
My Condolences and Prayers to Tejae, Nikki, his children, parents and the whole Santos family!
Jayar was an amazing person, big heart, an infectious smile, and so much love to give. God had Jayar on an assignment here on earth and Jayar understood every part of that assignment. Job well done, God will take it from here 🙏🏽 💜
Had the pleasure of working with Jayar. He made a huge difference in the life of many youths. My heart and prayers go out to all the family and friends. May his infectious smile forever be in your memories.
Our Condolences to family & friends
Very sad 😢 to hear Jayar passed away, such a great person. RIP cuz 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 ❤️ Barbara Jean Griffin & family
Dear Marjorie,
I am deeply saddened to hear about the passing of your brother. My heart felt condolences to you and your family.
What an amazing service it was for Jayar The packed church with a capacity of certainly more than 1000 along with some beautiful tributes and remembrances were abundant testimony to the Impact that Jayar has had on the lives of many many people, and to his character as a wonderful young man. It was deeply moving and inspiring.
My very deepest sympathies go out to the entire Santos clan for your loss. May you find comfort in the love of family and friends and wonderful memories. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Much love 💕
Sincere condolences to the Santos family and loved ones. My prayers are with you.
My deepest condolences to the Santos family. Jayar will forever be in are hearts, I loved him like a brother!!! He will be missed but never forgotten. I pray for strength and comfort in this difficult time.
Our sincerest and heart-felt condolences to the Santos family. 🙏 from Charlie Wood and Michelle Wood (mom)
Our sincere condolences. May your son rest in peace. Our prayers go out the family.
The Spencer Family sends their heartfelt condolences during this difficult time. God Bless your Family.
The Bailey Family extends our deepest condolences to the Santos Family. Our prayers are with you during these difficult times.
Jayar, you may have left us far too soon, but your loving presence will endure forever in our hearts and souls. You were an inspiration, and a role model to many. You will be greatly missed.
My deepest condolences to the Santos family. JR was an incredible soul. His selfless dedication to the community and others cannot be quantified. I appreciate the times that I had with him and I’m especially proud that he considered me a big brother. You will be missed. Rest easy my friend.
The DuBose family offers its sincerest condolences to the beautiful Santos family. We are so sorry for your loss.
My deepest sympathy and condolences to the Santos family, may God comfort, you, your family, and friends and give you His peace that passes all human comprehension. May His love be with forever.
My deepest condolences to the family of such a gracious and humble man. Thank you for putting such an amazing man into this world! He will be greatly missed by the many lives he touched.
I was heartbroken when I heard of Jayar’s passing. He was a great man who will be deeply missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Santos Family. ❤❤🙏🏿🙏🏿
To Wilmette,Frank, and Family. I am saddened to hear of the passing of your son Jayar. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May all your memories give you strength at this difficult time. Linda Creamer
💐Our deepest condolence to the entire family💐May his soul rest in peace.
Sending love and condolences to the Santos family and all that counted Jayar as a friend. His spirit will never be forgotten and his impact on the world, especially Mt. Hope, will last forever.
To the santos family our deepest condolences. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers Jayar was a wonderful young man
Chico and Wilmette, so sad to hear about the loss of Jayar. I remember you telling me after he graduated from LaSalle that he was off to play football at Hofstra. How proud you were!
In his short life he left his his mark everywhere he went and with everyone he met. May God provide you with a pathway for healing.
My condolences to Jayar’s family and friends. Universe lost a great person. Hope we all can continue to lead the community as he did. Rest in peace Jayar🙏🏾
Nicole-I am so sorry to hear about Jayar’s passing. I am thinking of you and your family during this difficult time. Prayers….
My deepest condolences to the Santos Family. Jayar’s light will always shine bright in our hearts and memories. May he rest in peace.
My deepest heartfelt condolences to the Santos during this time of grief. Many great memories of our teenage years and adult life will remain bright! Jayar’s zest for the youth, community and his family is unmatched. May his big smile and genuine soul remain in our hearts forever.
Sending my love and light, Chantelle
Miss you already Fam. Condolences to the family and everyone that loved you.
Love And Condolences To Jayar’s Family May He Rest In Peace And May All The Love And Happiness He Brought To This World Never Be Forgotten God Bless You All
Condolences to the Santos family on the passing of Jayar. May he rest in peace and may you all be comforted during this time of sadness and loss.
Wilmette, Chico, my deepest Sympathy for your loss during this difficult time.
My condolences to the Santos Family, may God bless and comfort all that are hurting from Jayar’s passing.
My sincere condolences to the Santos family. Jayar has finished his race. GOD will take it from here. Job well done to a good and faithful man. May GOD strengthen and keep his family now and always.
R. I.P Jayar My sincere condolences to the Santos family and friends.Thoughts and prayers from Fox 🦊 Point 🙏❤️
To Chico and the entire Santos Family, I send my heartfelt prayers from Florida. While I had never met Jayar, I am not surprised to read that he was an outstanding, kind, and compassionate man. After all, he was raised by two perfect parents in a loving family.
Chico, stay strong and know that GOD will take it from here.
My sincere condolences go out to the family. You all will be in my Prayers. RIP Jayar 🙏🏽❤️
Sincere condolences to Chico & Willemet and family I know what’ it’s like too lose someone you love but you will you have so many good memories of him that you will keep close to your heart ❤️ gone but never forgotten he was a wonderful guy and father and husband RIP Jayar we love you The Mitchell Family your neighbors
Jayar, you will be missed by all who knew and loved you! Your smile was so vibrant as soon as you walked into a room all would stop and the attention would be on you! So respectful, loving and humble. It was an honor to know you. Thank you for you heart and dedication to our community. Prayers to your family…
May the peace of our Lord rest upon the family at this challenging time .cousin Jr I love you and will miss you but will never forget you .may you rest in heavenly peace and God bless your soul and the family as well….
My deepest sincere condolences to the entire Santos family. This is a huge loss to the community.
I’m worked and competed with Jayar with the Providence Cobras, on the LaSalle Academy football team, the Mt.Hope Cowboys football team, RIBallHawk, and in general genuine friendship.
Jayar will be missed!
Jayar,
You were always looking out for people. I can still hear your voice. It’s one that can never be forgotten. Thank you for being a mentor and a coach in both my adolescent and adult life. You will be missed 🥺
My sincere and heartfelt condolences to the entire family.
To the entire Santos family, my prayers and sympathy are with you during this most difficult time. Jayar was a positive difference maker that made such an impact on the youth who crossed paths with him. He will be missed by all, but especially the youth in the community. May he Rest in Peace.
My Deepest Condolences to the Santos family.May Jayant rest in Heavenly peace.
To Chico and Wilmette
There are NO words to describe the loss of a child, or any to comfort you in these days of sadness. Although I only met Jayar as a player at LaSalle, and again recently at the occasion of Chico’s HOF Induction. His words of deepest Love and Admiration for his Father, were the ultimate testimony of the Special Young Man you two raised. Our world need more people like he. Eternal Rest Jayar, Love and Solace to your Family & Many Loved One’s!
Chico and Wilmette and the entire Santos family my heartfelt condolences and prayers to each of you. The pain of losing a child is unspeakable, I’ve lost a child but God will see you through the coming days. You have so many treasured memories and love shared to always embrace. My prayers of comfort and strength to you. May Jayar rest peacefully.
“I miss JAYAR already!” -Adeana aka divas lemonade 😢
“me too”- Anaiis aka La Baby
JAYAR was the lifeguard at Roger (we called) “Camden pool” when I was just a pre-teen & present day he was my daughters “camp staff” as they would say. The assistant director of Vincent brown.
The stories we can tell about JAYAR are endless like most people because he was unforgettable, he touched so many lives and was an Angel here on earth. Our family is so heart broken and extend our sincere condolences to his wife, daughter and the rest of the Santos family. JAYAR will definitely be missed!!!
My condolences to the entire Santos Family. May Jayar rest in Heavenly peace.
I’m saddened to hear the news of Jayar’s passing. My condolences to his family and friends.
My condolences to the Santos family. May God see you thru this difficult time.
I want to extend my sincerest condolences and deepest prayers on the passing of Jayar Santos, to this family and friends. His untimely passing came as a shock to all of us. This young man, brotha, husband, father, son, athlete, coach, community leader gave so much of himself to all and will be sorely missed, but not forgotten. Unceasing prayers to all. God bless y’all, Rev. Joseph Rocha
Frank (Chico), Wilmette, and Family,
My deepest condolences on the passing of your son Jayar. Sonnie and I feel your pain and unbearable loss as parents. A remembrance comes to mind as we often think of our loss: When someone you love becomes a memory, those memories become treasures. Your son, Jayar, who gave lots of love and support to those lives he touched, is now that treasure. You will always cherish him in your hearts. Love you guys, Vickie and Jonn Garrick.
My sincere condolences to the Santos family. I attended LaSalle with Jayar and he always had a smile on his face! I saw him recently and we had such a great conversation about high school football and what a great time we all had together. You will truly be missed by an entire community that love you.
My deepest condolences to the Santos Family. Jayar was one the best people I knew. My heart is broken because, one of our best is gone💔
May he rest in Haven you the Santos family find Peace
Wayne Blackmon and the Blackmon family❤️
I’m sending my heartfelt condolences to the Santos family. JAYAR SANTOS was a unique individual, who made others lives better, no matter the situation. His overwhelming energy made him likable. An upbeat honest MAN that will leave his LEGACY for many to cherish and remember. R.I.P. (Rest In Praise) My brother…
My deepest condolences to the entire Santos family and the many loved ones 🙏🏾.
I’ve had the pleasure of knowing Jayar (since he was a youngster) and the energy that surrounded him was amazing! Always smiling! Through this journey in life he touched so many souls and brought “life lessons” to the youth in all communities.
On Earth we may have lost a good man but the Heavens have opened its gates to a true soldier…a man of God’s purpose.
May his legacy continue.
My condolences to the Santos’ family. May Jayar rest in peace. Sending prayers of comfort and strength to your family.
Jayar was the best of what we all could hope a young man growing up in this city could be. Touched so many lives and was always a humble leader! My prayers and thoughts are with the whole family! Rest in Paradise Jayar. Thank you for all you did and represented!
I was saddened to hear of the passing of Jayar, and I wanted to extend my heartfelt condolences to you during this difficult time. My sincere condolences to entire Santos family.
Mr Frank, Mrs Wilmette, Mrs Marge & Family
My sincere condolences go out to all of you.
You are in my thoughts and prayers
Dear Melissa and family,
We are deeply saddened to hear of the passing of your brother, Jayar. During this time of loss, may you find your strength in God and each other. The St. Mary Academy – Bay View community has your family in our hearts and in our prayers.
In sisterhood,
Mandi Grattan ’11
St. Mary Academy – Bay View Alumnae Office
My sincere prayers and condolences go out to Nikki, Najah his Parents and the entire Family. I pray that God comforts each and everyone that this remarkable young Man touched with his presence. Rest in peace Jayar 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
My condolences go out to Jayar’s entire family during this time. I was a pleasure knowing over the last 20 years. You weren’t just a client at our barbershop, you became our brother. Our endless debates about Jay-Z and Nas, our conversations about the youth and community, and our gut wrenching laughter about the corny stuff on Facebook are precious moments that I will forever hold close to my heart during those moments when I think of you. Love your boy McNeil! 1/3 of your brothers from It’s Hair barbershop.
My condolences to the entire family and everyone who loved Jayar including myself. We will miss you.You have a new calling now. Continue to watch over us like you been. I love you.
My sincere condolences to you Willimette and Chico, the pain in your heart will hurt forever, but the sweet memories of your son will sustain you. I know your pain all to well. Peace be with you Love and peace to his wife and children and your family
My sincere condolences go out to the family. He will be missed dearly💔
Love,
The Hector Family
Sending my condolences and Heartfelt prayers to the family on the loss of JAYAR,
He was all that and some!
May the love of Faith, Family and Friends comfort you all through this most difficult time.
RIP Jayar. I was blessed to have known you. That smile will always be remembered.
My sincere condolences to all that love him.
My sincere condolences to the entire Santos family I sincerely share Your grief May Jayant Rest In Eternal Peace 🙏🏿🙏🏿
Chico…Wilmette…our sincere condolences during this moment of grief. You are in our prayers.
Keep his spirit alive
To Chico and Wilmette and Santos Family…my deepest heartfelt condolences….As a parent we are not suppose to bury our children…..for I also share the pain of losing a child…..Jayar may you RIP…for your memories will be forever in our hearts
Mike and see you and heartfelt condolences to the Santos family
Although I only met Jayar a few times, I know from his Santos family that he was much loved, respected and admired. There will be no one to replace him because he was so unique as a teacher, brother, husband, father, son, uncle and friend. The list goes on.
May he be at peace and may his family and friends find peace as well now and in the future. My heartfelt condolences for all of you.
My sincere condolences to the entire family. I offer my heartfelt sympathies during this incredibly challenging time. Jayar’s memory will forever be a source of strength and inspiration. Sending prayers of comfort and strength to Nikki and the entire Santos family.
Our deepest condolences to all the family & friends of this upstanding and outstanding young man. A true leader and positive voice for all. An incredible loss, your memory & legacy will live on.
My sincere sympathies to Chico, Willamette and the entire Santos family
My prayers are with you all
Jayar I will always love and miss you.. Jayar is loved and will be miss by THE PERRY FAMILY ME ROBIN AND MY SON DERRICK AND MY DAUGHTER SHANNON RENZ, KEVIN, KENTON AND MY ENTIRE FAMILY.. WE ARE DEEPLY SADDENED BY THE LOST OF MY JAYAR.. GOD BLESS HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN.. MAY GOD KEEP HIM ON HIS RIGHT SIDE ALWAYS..
Outlaw/Nation sends our sincere condolences to the entire family. Jayar was a Fraternity brother with The Ciccone/148 Outlaw/Nation Flag football team..his legacy will carry on with the current team and Fraternity brothers. JR1🏈☠️ 🙏
Your smile And great soul will never be forgotten. Condolences to the whole family.
Will never forget Hofstra days with Jayar. He was such a funny, caring person. This is a huge loss for the world. Rest in Peace. Prayers to his family.
Chico, Wilmette & family,
My sincere condolences go out to all of you. Prayers going up for you during this difficult time. Jayar rest peacefully in the arms of the Lord. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Love you my brother. I miss you so much! Rest peaceful JAYAR.
RIP Jayar 🙏🏻
My deepest condolences to the Santos family. May you find comfort in the knowledge he profoundly touched so many lives.
Jayar made an significant impact on not only me but our youth and the entire community. Jayar was never one to judge; he always fought for what was right. I’m going to miss you. Until we meet again….
Sincere condolences to the Santos Family. I condone with you all and will continue to pray for you.Please accept my heart felt sympathy.
Love From Tola
To Jayar’s entire family I send my sympathy. I knew his grandmother and father, (Frank and Virginia). To his parents I share the pain of a loss of a child. May he rest in peace.
My heartfelt condolences to his wife Nicole and Daughter Najah and his entire Family.
Jayar was a well respected / respectable positive man whom I had the pleasure of knowing for many years .
Rest Peacefully young man 🙏🏾
I was deeply saddened to hear of the passing of Jayar, he was one of a kind and I’m thankful for the fun times during our years at La Salle.
Sending my heartfelt condolences to Nikki and the entire Santos family. May you find comfort and peace during this extremely difficult time.
My deepest sympathy and prayers are with the “whole” of Jayar’s much beloved family and friends.
A bright light has dimmed on our side of life, but in heaven it shines evermore. He is just on the other side of the veil, and he “can” continue his work for all. In prayer we can ask God for his help!
Always,
Joanna (Moore) Ladipo
I am sending my condolences to the Santos family. Jayar will be missed by all of us. He
will remain in our hearts forever. He is gone, but will never be forgotten.
Jacki, Kai, Richard,& Lunora Blockson
My sincere condolences go out to the Santos family. Many great memories of our childhood, teenage, and adult years will always stay vivid!! Jayar was a great person, a great man, a true role model and will be missed dearly!!
My sincere condolences to the Santos family. Jayar will truly be missed by many. I send love & comfort to you all during this time.
Jacinta & Tre
Deepest condolences Chico to you, your wife and family .
Prayers for you all. May he REST in Peace.
Sending my heartfelt condolences to the entire family. May God comfort you all at this difficult time.
To my beautiful brother in law, Jayar,
I will miss ever ounce of you. You were the light in Nic’s life. You kept us close and connected and reminded us what family is about. I will always respect the man you were, I will never let your memory go. Though you are gone way too soon, I will not mourn you but instead I will celebrate you and all that you are! I will truly, TRULY, miss you my brother. Your nephews and I love you dearly.
Breana, Bryce, and Adren
Chico and Willimet our deepest sympathy and condolences for your loss.
My deepest condolences goes out to his family. His wife and his daughter he was a wonderful man to all we will truly miss you rest in peace our angel.🙏🏿❤️🙏🏿🙏🏿
My deepest condolences to the family. You will be deeply missed, I can’t drive by the house to mine without crying. You were the kindest person I had the pleasure of knowing, as your neighbor never failing to ask if me and my daughter were ok or needed anything. I will forever miss you my friend.
Much love Grace, Zoë, and Rosie Olsen ♥️💔♥️
Ted Haig….Our sincere and deepest condolences to Frank (Chico) Santos and family for the lost of their beloved son/and family relative. Peace….
Our condolences to the Santos family. What a beautiful soul. You are missed dearly. The community will not be the same. ❤️ With love from Van Leesten Family
My condolences to Jayar’s family and friends!! May he rest peacefully!!!
Jayar was one of the most real people I have met. Kind and generous with his time. He cared about his community and tried to raise the bar for kids who needed a role model and mentor. He will be sorely missed. Jayar Santos was generational!
Thank You Jay
I really learned so much from you
On and Off the court and fields..
I appreciate All you Done to our communities/ athletes that we was able to coach together at CF High School with the girls Basketball Team…
Love Always CoachManny
Saying that Jayar was a remarkable human being is an understatement. It’s so hard to put words to my feelings. I only knew Jayar for 2 years but the impact he made on me was significant. It was an honor and a gift to get to know him. Prayers from the bottom of my heart to his family.
I am so sad to hear the news of Jayar’s passing. He was a wonderful coach to the players at Moses Brown. He will be remembered fondly by all those he worked with. Peace.
Frank, Wilmette and Family,
We are so sorry to learn that Jayar has passed. We send our condolences. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
There are no words – just Love. RIP
The Cameron Family
My sincere condolences to the family. May God keep his loving arms around you guys during this difficult time. He will be missed. Rest in paradise Jayar.
My deepest sympathies. Jayar was and will always be a giant among men!
My condolences to the family. I didn’t know brother Jayar but I know his cousin Matthew. If there is any resemblance I know he was a man of faith and principles. My heart goes out to the family.
My deepest condolences to Jayar’s family during this extremely difficult time. He was one of the kindest,caring people I’ve ever had the privilege of meeting. We’ve been friends since the 7th grace and I always loved keeping up with all the great time he did for the community. Sending love and light to his family and friends! He will never be forgotten.
My deepest condolences go out to everyone who was fortunate enough to know Jayar
My sympathy to the family may he rest in peace.
My sincerest condolences to the Santos family. Sending prayers of comfort and strength to you all. Jayar was a great person in the community and he will be truly missed. With love from the Dunston family
My prayers and condolences go out to his family 🙏🙏
Sincere condolences to the santos family . ❤️🖤🥰🌹✝️🕊️
My sincere condolences to the family. May you be comforted by the beautiful memories of Jayar. He will be missed and never forgotten by all the lives he has touched.
Sincere condolences to the Santos family. We love you all and we mourn with you. Thank you for sharing Jayar with us. He will remain in our hearts forever. With love the Hill family.